Am I Atypical?

Apparently I am! That’s what the dermatologist called to tell me today. The mole removed from my abdomen last week was determined to be Atypia, in other words, “pre-cancerous”, but the margins were clear.  He wants me to be checked again in 4 months, 8 months, 12 months, then every year. (Thanks to my maternal grandmother and paternal grandfather, both of whom had numerous skin cancer lesions). The mole itself was only the size of a small pearl, but quite dark.  Now I am left with what is sure to be a nasty scar, about the size of a large pea, but seeing as I have no intentions of wearing a bikini anytime soon, it is well hidden! If you really must see it, click here.

I have an appointment with my oncologist next week since the pain on my right rib cage area has not improved in almost a year and I have had continued bouts of tender swelling in my groin on that side for over a year as well.  I have numerous sharp, tender “jabs” under my rib cage and towards my back each and every day. At times it is a take-your-breath-away pain, but it is brief and so I deal with it. I’ve almost become accustom to it, so much so that I have stopped all pain medications because they make me too loopy and I guess I would say that the jabs are tolerable (as much as one can stand being “slugged” in their side every day)! I’ll wait to see what tricks Dr. G may have yet left in his bag.  I’m imagining the standard blood work, another scan, and another, “we can’t find anything” result but it is what cancer survivors do. It is the drill for at least 5 years, and sometimes beyond.  As much as I would like to let it go, and decide once and for all that this is nothing to worry about, the fact is that I do worry and I feel very strongly that it is not normal. Fortunately for me, neither does my doctor, and he is on a mission to find it.

Summer is officially underway and next week at this time we will be graduating our last high schooler and attending college orientation soon. This same daughter plans on auditioning for American Idol in Pittsburgh later this summer as well. She can only take one parent with her. We’ll be fighting over that assignment!

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5 thoughts on “Am I Atypical?

  1. A scar…. MMMmmmm. In days gone by, people were proud of their battle scars. You have every right to be proud of your scar. Another alternative is to highlight it with a tattoo, a feminine one. Or maybe even a small Irish cross to cover the scar. It is a very personal choice because like the scar it covers it will be with you forever as a mlie marker on your life’s journey.

  2. Thanks for the lab update. Funny – “which parent will go to the audition”? – Good Luck. We will be in Touch.
    Love, Mom

  3. OOh American Idol? Keep us posted 🙂 As for the mole and the tests and everything, I’m sorry you still can’t relax, but who would? You are in my prayers xx

  4. Looks pretty yukky right now but I suppose it’ll get better. I think I’d really keep close to the doctor! The pain sounds a little like the shingles pain I went through.

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